Talking About Your Family

Collocations For Talking About Your Family

Let’s begin our study of collocations by learning some common expressions about the family. Your parents and siblings (brothers and sisters) are your immediate family – and your extended family includes all your relatives – uncles, cousins, great-aunts, etc.

You can use a family tree to diagram the relationships among your family members. A person who is related to you by a long series of connections can be called a distant relative.

If you’re lucky, you have a loving family or a close-knit family – these expressions refer to a family that has good relationships, where everyone loves each other and helps each other. If you were raised in a loving family, then you probably had a carefree childhood – that means you had nothing to worry about when you were young.

On the other hand, a family in which the relationships are bad or unhealthy can be called a dysfunctional family. If the children experience abuse, poverty, or problems with the law, we can say they had a troubled childhood.

Perhaps the parents went through a bitter divorce – that means a separation in which there were bad/angry feelings between the husband and wife. It’s also possible to have a messy divorce, with a prolonged legal battle involving lots of conflicts about the separation of the former couple’s assets (money and possessions). The decisions about the separation of assets are made in the divorce settlement. A family in which there are divorces or separations is sometimes called a broken home.

Sometimes the mother and father fight over custody of the children – that refers to who has the primary responsibility of caring for the kids. A judge can grant joint custody – that means the ex-husband and ex-wife share the responsibility – or sole custody to only one parent. For example, a judge might award sole custody to the mother, and the father has to pay child support – regular payments to help with expenses for the kids.

If it was a mutual divorce/separation – that means the ex-husband and ex-wife agreed to separate without fighting – then they will probably stay on good terms with each other(meaning to have a polite relationship without conflicts).

If a woman gets pregnant without being married or in a relationship, then she will become a single mother. Some women in this situation choose to have an abortion, and others prefer to give the baby up for adoption. The time when the baby is planned to arrive is called the due date – you can also say the baby is due in mid-October, for example.

After the woman has the baby (or gives birth to the baby), the baby is given to the adoptive parents, who will raise the child or bring up the child as if it was their own. Sometimes, when the adopted child is older, he or she tries to find their birth mother (biological mother).

TEST

Question 1

A friend of mine ____________ birth to her son at home with the help of a nurse.

а)    gave    b)   took    c)   went

Question 2

A number of the kids in my classroom come from _____________ homes.  

a)       broken    b)  damaged     c)  hurt

Question 3

After a _____________ divorce from his wife of 20 years, the actor married a woman young enough to be his daughter.

a)      hostile       b) cruel     c) bitter

Question 4

I see my ______________ family once a year, during our annual family vacation.

a)      excepted      b)  expanded      c)  extended

Question 5

I was raised in a very _____________ family, in which everyone helped each other.

a)      joyful      b)  loving     c)  tender

Question 6

I was _____________ by my grandparents after my parents passed away.

a)      created      b)  grown      c)  raised

Question 7

I'm on good _____________ with all my former boyfriends.

a)      friends      b)  relations      c)  terms

Question 8

John had a _____________ childhood, growing up with happily married parents and three brothers.

a)      carefree      b)  careful      c)  careless

Question 9

Many women regret ____________ an abortion years afterwards.

a)       giving     b)   having      c)  taking

Question 10

My aunt's going through a ____________ divorce; she's paying a fortune in legal fees.

a)      messy      b)  sloppy       c)  untidy

Question 11

My husband doesn't get along with a few of my family ________________.

a)      people      b)  individuals      c)  members

Question 12

Although my salary is low, I get child ______________ from my ex-husband.

a)      assistance      b)  provision      c)  support

Question 13

My sister ____________ pregnant immediately after she got married.

a)      got      b)  had      c)  made

Question 14

My son is making a diagram of our family ____________ for a school project.

a)      roots      b)  tree      c)  web

Question 15

My wife is pregnant with twins. They're ___________ in February.

a)      come      b)  due      c)  here

Question 16

Sally was granted sole ______________ of the children from her first marriage.

a)      custody      b)  guardian      c)  keeping

Question 17

Teenagers who had a _____________ childhood often have behavior problems in school.

a)      distressed      b)  troubled      c)  worried

Question 18

The celebrity wrote a book about his ______________ family.

a)      debilitated      b)  defective      c)  disfunctional

Question 19

The divorce _____________ awarded the wife $500,000.

a)      contract      b)  reimbursement      c)  settlement

Question 20

There are four people in my ____________ family.

a)      close      b)  immediate      c)  neighboring

Question 21

They have three biological children and two ___________ children.

a)      adopted      b)  adoptive      c)  adopting